Your first love is going to mark your life more than you may imagine, especially if you have unpleasant or traumatic experiences.
This is why you have to be very careful, which is not easy at all when you are young and ignorant, and you want very much to discover the world and live fully, having many adventures.
You certainly want to meet many people, have many different relationships, and be able to choose the best one for you, after all your experiences.
Don’t think that by having many different partners you are going to be able to choose the best one in the end though, because you may stick with someone, or you may simply waste your time with people that have no intention of ever having a serious relationship.
On the other hand, if you have only one boyfriend or girlfriend in your life and you never meet anyone else, you may simply stay with them only because you are used to their presence, without feeling anything really special for this person.
The way our society is today, that kind of relationship is quite rare, since most relationships are superficial and last only for a short period of time.
If you want to have a serious relationship with someone, having in mind a future wedding, you might face many deceptions…
On the other hand, if you have never had any relationships before, you tend to think that your first love is not going to be the only love story of your life. You are certainly not yet looking for your future husband or wife, when you look for your first boyfriend or girlfriend…
However, this is what you should do, even though you think that this is a strange idea, because this mindset is going to save you from many deceptions and traumas.
If you don’t care about who is going to be your first love and you simply want to have a provisory first relationship just to finally have this experience in your life, or because you like the physical characteristics of someone, you may get involved with a person who will mark your emotional life in a very negative way from the beginning.
Try to look for a person whose personality is similar to yours, pay attention to their behavior and never get involved with people that don’t care for the way you feel.
When you see that someone doesn’t treat you well and doesn’t care enough about your happiness, stay away from them, because being near them can only cause many traumas, which may follow you for the rest of your life.
If you are a young man, don’t think that you have to have many sexual relationships with many girls, only because “you are a man”, and don’t look for girls that easily accept making love with you, because they will do the same with all the other boys, and they may hurt your feelings very much when they betray you.
If you are a young woman, be careful with unprotected sexual relationships. Teen pregnancy is a very serious problem that could ruin your life from the beginning.
Don’t think that an abortion is a “simple” solution, because you may acquire serious health problems if you have an abortion when you are still very young, and then never be able to have a child when you finally get married and desire to have your own family.
Take everything very seriously from the beginning of your life, especially when it is related to love and sex, or your first sad experiences will dramatically affect your mental health and happiness for years!
Write down your dreams and translate them according to the scientific method. This way, the guidance of the wise unconscious mind that sends you precious dream messages will always protect you from suffering, besides showing you exactly what you have to do in order to find real love and happiness in life.