Twitter Dating:
Twitter has become a rather popular social network where many people with like interests can tweet, talk and speak what is on their mind. Build your circle of friends and watch your social life blossom.
When you are building your circle of friends, try not to follow too many people or else you will potentially be viewed as a spammer. Try to keep the people you follow as the same level of your followers.
When you tweet about your crush, be careful with what you tweet. It would be embarrassing to tweet something sexual to your crush and find out your whole family has read the same thing you have twittered. Use caution and wisdom with exactly what you tweet. If you really must tweet something private, there is a direct message feature available for your usage. No one really wants TMI unless they are Jerry Springer fans.
With this rule in mind, do not share important information on your public tweets, such as address or other things could cause you to be a target for the public freak-a-ziods out there in the world, who seem to have nothing more to do with their time than to cause other people pain. Play it safe.
Do not rush into the dating thing. The best relationships always start out with friendship. If you rush to fast into the relationship, you could potentially scare the date away, or even get to emotionally involved with someone that really is not a good match for you. This in turn will land you in a pool of tears instead of rainbows and butterflies.
Once you give the tweeter enough time of tweeting and getting to know each other, feel free to go out for coffee. It is ok to give the tweeting crush your phone number but try to meet in a public location for the first meeting. It is never a good idea to meet your date in a quiet place. This includes your home, a dark park, or even another friend’s home. Meeting someone at a friend’s home not only puts you in danger but it puts your friend in danger as well.
When you meet the person do not fall into the sack right after coffee. Being a raging hormonal animal is not going to keep you from going to fast in the relationship. Often times, it will cause you to lose your date’s respect. Not only will you lose the respect, but you may not even get a call back from the one you have your eye on.
The best way to prevent you from wanting to jump into the sack when chemistry is really making magic, is for the ladies: do not shave your legs. Men: it sounds a little gross but do not wash your genital area. Keeping your genitals a little dirty will keep you a little more in control of yourself because you will not want your date to think you are a dirty person. Just make sure the rest of your body does not stink.
Once you have had your date, try to avoid twittering about the date you had. Your private business is not to be displayed all over the world nor is your date’s. Keep it simple. You can very easily tweet that you had a great time with your date last night and leave it at that.
Also give it a couple days before you contact one another to give each other time. This process helps the time you shared together sink in and to really evaluate each other’s personality. Then, in a week or two if you really like each other, go out for a light lunch together.
Just remember to take things slowly. Rushing into anything is never a rational decision and can cause you or another person to be hurt or in danger. Use your head, which is the best tip in any situation. Thinking before you act will most certainly keep you safe and alive. It will also help you be happier.
