So many of us always have the same trouble why this thing always happen to me, why am i still single?
There is some that heaven blame their partners. But en reality the person to blame is ourselves for not taking care of things how it should.
Many have talked about this issue, men, women, psychologists and always reach common ground and opposing points.
The most important thing is that we understand, to know some vital ideas that we have left besides. In this not talking about specific rules and parameters to follow, simply are some guidelines that will surely be used to achieve a successful relationship. Now, with that we will not leave behind the fact that if we are too lax on these points, as good human being who we are spoil.
At the time of capture, grow or regain the love of a man, women, always think about this:
We love the drama and monologues. Yes, those eternal conversations with our partners as passive audience. These discourses of hours where it repeats the same argument again and again.
We complain because it looks at another woman, for arriving late, because he do not listen, because he do not understand you, finally by an endless list of reasons that bore anyone. The issue is the relay of the relay, and beyond that, bringing up over and over past issues to get bored.
Definitely NOT! to sermons. Now, as I said earlier, is that you not let anything go wrong because they also need correction and occasionally .. not every day, all the time, every second.
Give them some space
We complain because the 24 hours a day would like to pass all of us, when suddenly they want to watch a football game, a night of drinking with friends … and all alone or with friends that is already a problem for us.
Now is not that these things are not to share because there’s too delicious to share with friends and girlfriends at once, more however, as men also need their space, to be alone for a while.
Stop trying to change them
If you thought you had found the ideal man, the dreamed prince, why struggle with some things that are complicated root? Obviously, you may need some adjustments, none of us are perfect, for example, we are unpunctual, we are wasteful, finally, little things, women are perfect to help them improve these issues.
But things like genius personality, they are a strong character, who are rude to express ourselves and show our affection, womanizing (this is vital), finally, how are you reaching problem, do not expect nor seek to change, however painful whether it is better to find someone else that meets your expectations.
Take the initiative to break the daily routine from time to time and propose new adventures. Since leaving travel to paradise, a coffee in a park or innovate new positions or games in bed (this is important, they are not the dominant gene for everything, they like creativity) .Change city, the color of your house. Take a couple of drinks together, live life to the fullest.
Do not call them every 5 minutes. It is very difficult to maintain a relationship when a person depends on another.
We tend to depend more than men of our partners.Make a senior partner in your life and takes over, we can conquer our own goals, from paying the electricity bill or driving to somewhere in the city to go out and have fun, do not use them for everything and everything.
We are not men superfluous, opinions that we want to decide the color of the fabric of the curtain that you put in their house, we want to know all the time where their are and with who they are.
Ladies make an effort to be that woman that you always dreamed to be, and you’ll see how your life will change. And you will never have to ask why are you still single because you won’t be.